What should I wear? A good rule of thumb is to dress business casual. Sometimes people get a little more dressy, especially on opening night. Are children allowed? Sure. As long as they can sit quietly and understand what's going on. It's also helpful if they can read the supertitles to follow the story. How early should I arrive? Usually 30 minutes prior is sufficient to find your seat, check your coat, get a program, etc. Can I talk during the performance? No! Quiet whispering if you really need to but talking is not permitted. Can we eat or drink during the show? Not usually. Theaters have strict rules about food and drink. Candy with noisy rappers are especially frowned upon! Can I yell "Bravo"? Of course. Especially at the end of a great song or at the end of the show. Should I clap after every song? Not really. Take your cue from the people around you. Can I take pictures or record the event? No. The musicians union prohibits recording the event without permission. Should I bring other money with me? If you like. Often there is food and drink to buy during intermission. Is the opera handicap accessible? Yes. There are ramps, wide doorways and the staff can help. What if I don't speak Italian? No problem. English supertitles are projected above the stage. Can I meet the singers? After the show the singers usually come out front to greet their fans. Can I go backstage? Not usually. Insurance limits the theaters ability to let this happen. Can I talk to the orchestra players? After the show would be the right time to talk to anyone. Before or during is too crazy for those involved. What if someone is disturbing me during the performance? Tell the ushers or house manager at a pause. What if I don't understand what's going on? The english supertitles translate the text and in the program there is a synopsis of the story line. What can I expect as a first time opera? To have a great time!